I Just Can't Forgive That Person For What They Did To Me!

  

QUOTATION

 

“As I used to tell my brother Ronnie, don't play a con game with God. You can't say, well, I'll do it later or feel you can roll the dice and just wait until another time to make that important decision. You may not have that option in the future!”

 

Barry Denzil Haney

 

SCRIPTURE

 

For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

 

Matthew 6:14-15

 

REFLECTION

 

I just can’t forgive that person for what they did to me!

 

Many in our world are bound by the chains of unforgiveness. Like the cancer invading our flesh, unforgiveness is a cancer invading, and insinuating its tendrils into the very heart of our soul! In Matthew 6:14-15, God makes it very clear that until we forgive others, He will not have a relationship with us!

 

In her article entitled “Forgiveness: How it Manifests in our Health, Well-being, and Longevity”, Kathi Norman shares the following: 

 

“Failing to forgive, or unforgiveness, is the practice of engaging in ruminative thoughts of anger, vengeance, hate, and resentment that have unproductive outcomes for the ruminator, such as increased anxiety, depression, elevated blood pressure, vascular resistance, decreased immune response, and worse outcomes in coronary artery disease.”¹

 

 

In Ephesians 4:31, Paul instructs us to do the following:

 

“Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

 

Failing to forgive someone, allows the person to subconsciously control you. You can break the mental chains causing a separation from God when you forgive!

 

PRAYER

 

Our Heavenly Father,

 

Help us to forgive those who have trespassed against us!

Although we may have been hurt and betrayed by others,

Help us to break the mental chains separating us from God,

Help us to be chain breakers!

 

Although we cannot understand why you allow us to suffer,

We are comforted by the knowledge that through our suffering 

You allow us to turn to You in repentance. Then we are able

To spend an eternity with You in a loving relationship!

 

In precious name Jesus our Lord and Savior,

 

Amen!

 

 

SONG OF WORSHIP

 

Chain Breaker – Zach Williams

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WtV1XtqsW0

 

God Bless You,

Barry

 

1Norman, Kathi. “Forgiveness: How It Manifests in Our Health, Well-Being, and Longevity.” University of Pennsylvania Scholarly Commons, August 8, 2017. 

 

 

Say What?

 

 QUOTATION

 

“First of all, I do not believe the thought initiating lust is a sin until acted upon.”

 

 

Barry Denzil Haney

 

SCRIPTURE

 

But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.

 

James 1:14-15

 

 

REFLECTION

 

Say what! I can think deplorable things and I have not sinned? 

 

Not exactly true. A fine line exists between thoughts and actual sin. A thought about lust is a temptation by Satan to follow him, to fall prey to his trap to drag you to hell with him. We will all have temptation. Remember, even Jesus was tempted during his time here on Earth. However, Jesus rebuked Satan’s temptation.

 

The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 10:13 this:

 

“There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.”

 

I believe the Holy Spirit is telling me, although the initial thought or temptation to do something displeasing to God is not a sin, it does become a sin when acted upon or when we dwell on the thought or temptation.

 

Look at Jesus’ teaching concerning the matter of lust, found in Matthew5:27-28:

 

“Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”

 

The Greek word for “looketh” in this passage is a present particle verb, which refers to continuous action. Therefore, it appears Jesus was describing a situation where a man repeatedly looks at a woman, lusting or thinking about having a sexual relationship with her.

 

 The bottom line is we should do as James 4:7 tells us to do, submit ourselves to the Lord and flee from Satan, when temptation first rears its ugly head!

 

 

PRAYER

 

Our Heavenly Father,

 

Thanks you for not allowing me to be tempted above 

what I am able to handle! Thanks you for providing me 

a way to escape the temptation Satan throws my way! 

Thank you for the full Armor of God you give me to 

protect me as I navigate my rocky journey to salvation!

 

During the coming day, help me to remain focused on 

Jesus! Help me become a beacon of light to the unsaved, 

providing a chink in Satan’s deception, the deception preventing

the unsaved from spending an eternity with You in Heaven!

 

We ask all this in the glorious name of Jesus,

 

Amen!

 

SONG OF WORSHIP

 

Redeemed – Big Daddy Weave

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzGAYNKDyIU

 

God Bless You,

Barry

 

Kentucky Is A State Known For Horses!

QUOTATIONS

For you see, because God loves us so much, He wants us to willingly have faith in Jesus. He gave us free will and places the responsibility on us, to make the choice, whether we want to spend eternity with Him in the place He has prepared for us in Heaven, or to make the only other choice, to be eternally separated from Him, in a place called Hell.

Barry Denzil Haney

SCRIPTURE

If thou hast run with the footmen, and they have wearied thee, then how canst thou contend with horses? and if in the land of peace, wherein thou trustedst, they wearied thee, then how wilt thou do in the swelling of Jordan?

Jeremiah 12:5

DEEP REFLECTIONS

Kentucky is a state known for horses! Since the early frontier days, when settlers travelled through the Cumberland Gap on horseback, horses have been important in the state of Kentucky. The grassy farms overlying limestone deposits are thought by many to be the best place to raise and breed thoroughbred horses.

In a sermon entitled “How to Run With Horses”, Pastor Andrew Glenn, Central Church, tells us God is telling Jeremiah in verse 12:5, “if you think what he is facing is bad, you haven’t seen nothing yet”. He further told the congregation, …(god) I want to talk to you how you are handling things down here, I want to talk to you about your injustices…if we are going to live for what we haven’t seen yet, we’ve got to remember, when it comes to sufferings and hardships, and training, we ain’t seen nothing yet…you see when God was telling Jeremiah he needs to learn how to run with horses, He was telling him…he was talking about great suffering”.

God is telling us to stop whining! He is telling us to make changes in our lives to prepare for the challenges we will face daily in our walk with Jesus. Through daily prayer and guidance from the Holy Spirit, we will be equipped to withstand the temptations thrown at us by Satan!

PRAYERS

Our Heavenly Father,

Thank you for the daily guidance, instruction and

protection by the Holy Spirit! We know, as James tells

us in James 4:7, if we submit ourselves to God,

Satan will flee from us!

Help us to stop complaining, but instead, through the Holy

Spirit, empower us to work on doing something to correct

What is bothering us. Help us prepare to deal with daily

Challenges, by placing Jesus as the focus!

In the precious name of Jesus our Lord and Savior,

Amen!

SONG OF WORSHIP

Because He Lives...

God Bless You,

Barry

"For"

 

Because we were created by God to have a relationship with him, sin has created a separation from God which we experience as a void in our heart. We spend most of our lives trying to fill this void, this emptiness in our heart, with earthly pleasures.

 

Barry Denzil Haney

 

 

SCRIPTURE

 

He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.

 

1 John 3:8

 

REFLECTION

 

This past Sunday, Pastor Scott Nickel, Southland Christian Church, began a series of sermons entitled “For”. In the first sermon in the series, he discussed the concept “knowing who you are for defines who you are against”. He shared with the congregation the divine appointment Zacchaeus, chief tax collector in Jericho, had with Jesus. Although Zacchaeus was thought to be the greatest sinner in Jericho by many Jews, because of the wealth he had accumulated at their expense, Jesus climbed up into the fig tree to meet with Zacchaeus when Zacchaeus reached out to Him. He then went to Zacchaeus’ house to dine with him, something the inhabitants could not understand – why would Jesus meet with such a sinner as Zacchaeus. They were so willing to condemn Zacchaeus as a terrible sinner, ignoring the fact they were sinners as well. They did not understand we are all sinners and not one human ever born deserves to spend an eternity with God in Heaven because of sin, the thing that separates us from a relationship with God! They did not understand, we are only saved by grace through faith!

 

 PRAYER

 

Our Heavenly Father,

 

Help me to place You as the focus of my attention this day.

Help me not to be like the Pharisees and many of the Jews in Jericho,

Who were ready to condemn Zacchaeus for his sins,

But did not recognize they were sinners as well!

 

During the coming week may the Holy Spirit guide and direct me,

So my week will be filled with Godly wisdom.

Help me remember to love others as You have loved me!

I ask all of this in the glorious name of Jesus,

 

Amen!

 

 

SONG OF WORSHIP

Amazing Grace

God Bless You,

Barry